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Alex & Amelie

Are Getting Married

June 18th, 2016


Amelie Zeng

Amelie Zeng

Amelie was born just a few miles from Michigan State University, where her parents were getting their Ph.Ds. At 5, her family relocated to the northern suburbs of Chicago, where she would stay for the next 17 years. At 18, Amelie moved an unfathomable 15 minutes east to Evanston, IL to attend Northwestern University. There, she earned a B.A. in Economics and met Alex, who eventually earned her affections with his unique blend of charm, humor, and public ridiculousness. Eventually, fed up with the midwest's frigid winters, Amelie took the first opportunity to flee to San Francisco in search of the warmer more temperate shores of San Francisco.

Notable Metrics:
Tech Giant Alliance: Microsoft • RPDR Seasons Watched: 7
Tattoo Coverage: 4.5% • Customer Support Level: On Fleek

Alex Zylman

Alex Zylman

Alex is from Mound, one of the smaller towns in Minnesota.

Notable Metrics:
Chess Wins vs. Magnus Carlsen: 1 • Gophercons Attended: 1
Friday Drink: Rum & Coke • Most Watched Movie: Pitch Perfect


Met at Northwestern
September 16th, 2009
First Date at Sashimi Sashimi
August 6th, 2010
Moved in Together
September 4, 2013
Proposal in San Mateo, CA
January 23rd, 2015

The Proposal


One of Amelie's favorite places in the world is Dash Sushi.

Dash Sushi was discovered in 2014, while Alex and Amelie lived in a sketchy apartment complex in Belmont, CA. It became Amelie's favorite sushi spot the moment the server handed her a plate with sake toro nigiri. Its location - 15 minutes away, plus parking in the worst public lots ever designed - and the quality of the food made it a go-to spot for special occasions.

After they moved to San Francisco, going to Dash became much more difficult - 45 minutes without taking into account traffic AND parking and at that point, wouldn't it be better to just get food in the city anyway? It's not like the city is lacking in good food - and Amelie was left with a nigiri-shaped hole in her heart. So of course, she was very excited to receive a calendar invite one January afternoon: "Let's go to Dash Sushi!" She hit YES immediately.

At the restaurant, while Amelie exclaimed happily over a platter of omakase sashimi (including the amazing sake toro), Alex had more than a bit of unfiltered courage house sake. As they walked towards Alex's Camry, Amelie resigned herself to being the designated driver again. "But wait!" Alex said, "we're not going home yet." As Amelie's worldview holds that the best follow-up to Dash Sushi is ice cream, this wasn't out of the ordinary. Alex put an address into the GPS, refusing all the while to tell Amelie where they were headed.

Ten minutes from their destination, Alex exclaimed "Stop the car! Stop the car!" Despite the questionable legality of pulling over into the unmarked lane on the side of the road, and Amelie's protests to that effect, she eventually did. Alex burst out of the car excitedly, exhorting Amelie to do the same. There, on a bridge overlooking the bay, Alex pulled out a box with a customized version of Amelie's dream engagement ring and asked her to marry him. As you can probably guess, she said yes!

They then headed to the mystery location, which turned out to be a hotel room filled with champagne and chocolate-covered strawberries, where Amelie, who up to this point had been keeping it more or less together, spent about an hour crying ugly (but happy) tears and getting snot everywhere.

And the next day, Amelie and Alex told their family and friends. But, to Amelie's endless amusement, Alex had mentioned his plans to David, who had then told all of their local friends that he was planning to propose that evening, so exactly 0% of them were surprised. TL;DR: David is a huge gossip, Alex and Amelie are getting married, and you should always get ice cream after sushi.

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Bridespeople

  • Carolyn Pairitz

    Maid of Honor

    Carolyn Pairitz

    Carolyn and Amelie met at Northwestern University and became good friends despite Amelie's reluctance to head into Chicago proper and Carolyn living and studying at DePaul University. After graduation, Carolyn also moved to San Francisco - Amelie regularly plods her way up one of the city's most brutal hills to hear Carolyn's sage advice (most recently: "Maybe you should remind Alex he can't wear just a speedo to the wedding").

  • Kristy Zeng

    Sister & Jr. Bridesmaid

    Kristy Zeng

    Amelie and Kristy met in mid-1999, when Amelie was approximately 9 and Kristy was approximately 0. She is an aspiring scientist, avid dancer, trophy-winning pianist, and frequent "Favorite Child" title holder. Despite this, Amelie considers Kristy's greatest feat to be taking their parents on a rollercoaster, returning Amelie to favorite child status. Kristy attends New Trier High School, which Amelie will never let her live down. What is a Trevian even?

  • Grace Bushnell

    Bridesmaid

    Grace Bushnell

    Grace and Amelie met in college when another fourth floor freshman dragged her into Amelie's suite lounge for hangouts and Chem 101 homework. Almost seven years later, Grace continues to be one of Amelie's dearest friends - even though, for reasons unknown, Grace refuses to waltz Italy with Amelie anymore. Currently, she is revolutionizing cancer treatment through innovative biomedical research (science!) and also playing a lot of Civilization 5.

  • Lauren Johnson

    Bridesmaid

    Lauren Johnson

    Lauren was Amelie's freshman year roommate in Slivka - it worked out so well that they lived in the same suite for the next three years. As a side benefit to acquiring her Masters in Public Health, Lauren has been to more continents than any other person in the wedding party. Since Alex and Amelie became engaged, Lauren has also consistently lobbied for a circus-themed wedding. Was she successful? Find out in June!

  • Michael Carmody

    Bridesdude

    Michael Carmody

    The friendship between Carmody and Amelie is founded on three principles: hatred of chemistry, video game addiction, and Eric Schulz being the best Economics professor in the history of time. Carmody currently works for a Chicago-based tech company from his home in Boston, but his most important job is sending Amelie pictures of Pepper the phantom-colored goldendoodle.

  • Asuna

    The Lightning Flash

    Asuna Kitty

    As the furry feline bridal mascot, Asuna's contributions to the wedding planning process include: trying to steal sips of Alex's beer, sitting on keyboards to prevent Pinteresting and website-updating, and meowing inconsolably for no discernible reason. She's not a SMART cat, but she is Amelie's favorite.


Groomsmen

  • Derek Morris

    Best Man

    Derek Morris

    Alex met Derek as Derek was extrolling the virtues of a play version of Evil Dead put on Northwestern during freshman welcome week. As the only person that Alex knows who is on a Cards Against Humanity card, Derek is in a new league of champion.

  • Chris Zylman

    Brother & Groomsman

    Chris Zylman

    Alex's friendship with Chris began shortly after Alex opened his eyes for the first time and saw his twin brother, Chris. Despite louad and frequest protests to the contrary, they've been a significant part of each other's lives.

  • Ryan Brock

    Groomsman

    Ryan Brock

    A friendship that began on their dorm's executive board was cemented over Battlestar Galactica and extremely violent fights with pool noodles. It continued across two coasts (west coast and mid-west coast?) and now they're back together again, sharing an apartment in San Francisco with two women and two cats.

  • David Capel

    Groomsman

    David Capel

    Alex and David met in the third grade when Alex said "Hey, you look like a nerd" and David responded "Pot calling the kettle black". Alex paused briefly and then said "Wanna play Mario Kart?" Thus began an enduring friendship. After college, Alex and David lived together for a pun-filled three years.

  • Vince Dumas

    Groomsman

    Vince Dumas

    Vince was Alex's partner in crime in high school quiz bowl - they routinely pre-gamed their matches with six-packs of Redbull, with less-than-stellar results. Nowadays, they spend most of their time comparing homebrew recipes.

  • Lagavulin 16

    Scotch

    Lagavulin16

    Every man has a drink of choice; for Gentleman-Scholar Alex Zylman, it's a Lagavulin 16-year-old Single-Malt Scotch. Rich on the palate with hints of sherry, it boasts a long, smooth finish - perfect at the end of a long day when you need a nap.

Hotel/Accommodations

Holiday Inn Express - Mill Valley Holiday Inn Express - Mill Valley
160 Shoreline Hwy
Mill Valley, CA 94941

One King Bed - $229
Two Queen Beds - $249
Book Now

If you need to stay an extra day or two please call
(415) 332-5700 and ask for the Zeng-Zylman Wedding rate. They'll be able to accomodate you!

Wedding Info

Outdoor Art Club Date & Time:
Cereomy will start at 4 pm
Saturday, June 18, 2016

Both the Ceremony and Reception will be held at the Outdoor Art Club in Mill Valley, CA.

The Outdoor Art Club is a historical site owned and operated by the Mill Valley Outdoor Arts Society. It was designed by a famous architect, famous for his unique truss system which you can see in the ceilings of the building proper. Another signature item is the alligators carved into the beams.

The Outdoor Art Club is a non-smoking venue and does not allow dogs on the grounds.

Venue:
The Outdoor Art Club
1 West Blithedale Avenue
Mill Valley, CA 94941

  • FAQ

    • What Should I Wear?

      Besides Not White

      Dress Code



      The dress code of the wedding is black tie optional - be as fancy as you like, but please no shorts or jeans. The ceremony location is paved, so no need to worry about sinking into the grass!

      The wedding party will be wearing red and purple.

    • How do I get there?

      Point A <-> Point B

      Transportation



      Street parking is hard to find near the venue! We recommend the following transportation options:

      • Uber
      • Lyft

    • Can I take photos?

      or at least a hyperlapse

      Photos

      We want you to be able to really enjoy our wedding day, feeling truly present and in the moment with us. We've hired an amazing wedding photographer named ]Douglas Zimmerman who will be capturing the way the wedding looks — and we're inviting each of you to sit back, relax, and just enjoy how the wedding feels. We're respectfully asking that everyone leave all cameras and cell phones off for the ceremony. Of course we will happy to share our ceremony photos with you afterward!


    Registry

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